by Carla | Jan 25, 2023 | Comparison to Others, Food for Thought, Interactions & Communication
THAT PERSON WHO MUST TELL US ALL ABOUT A TOPIC THAT WE ALSO KNOW ABOUT, or how they excel at an activity or task that we also do – how fast or effective they are – it’s possible our first reaction might be that it is a reflection on us. We might take it to mean they...
by Carla | Dec 28, 2022 | Comparison to Others, Self-Worth & Self-Esteem
YOU’RE NOT LIKE ANYONE ELSE. Stop trying to be like someone else. Stop comparing your progress, your performance, your attributes – to theirs. You’re not perfect. You’re imperfect, but everyone else is imperfect as well. Even the person you think has it all together...
by Carla | Oct 9, 2022 | Comparison to Others, Self-Worth & Self-Esteem
WHO HASN’T STRUGGLED OR FELT PRESSURE FROM WITHIN TO KEEP UP TO THAT ZEALOUS PERSON at some point? Someone who seems to have all the answers or brilliant ideas – or at least offers them up so much quicker? Maybe in a meeting, at work, in the classroom,...
by Carla | Jul 2, 2022 | Comparison to Others
I’M IMPATIENT with myself when it comes to making a change, working toward a goal or achievement – really, anything I have decided that I want. I have a tendency to want things to happen ASAP: I want to do the thing, achieve the success, reach the goal, finish the...
by Carla | Apr 19, 2022 | Comparison to Others
YOU ARE NOT ALWAYS WRONG. OTHERS ARE NOT ALWAYS RIGHT. When listening to others and expanding your understanding, particularly when it comes to things of a spiritual nature, or others’ creative ideas, perspectives, beliefs, opinions, advice, or works of art, or...